October 19th, 2010
The pace of life seems to have increased exponentially from the time I was a child. As a society, we have become a very impatient culture. It is most evident when driving — watching car after car do anything to get in front of just one more car, like a few seconds is going to make that much of a difference. I never have been able to figure out why people can’t just wait their turn like everyone else. At the stores these days, the majority of people are just downright apathetic and rude. While the items I purchase are being checked out, I have seen so many customers just stand at the end of the belt with their arms crossed and an angry glare on their face. Some even tap their foot impatiently. I just don’t get it. I don’t remember it being so bad when I was younger. People would actually strike up a conversation and talk to each other in the store while waiting in line. The world was a happier place then. People would also gladly allow you to merge onto the highway or would wave you on at an intersection. Not anymore. We are living in the age of me. Few people truly care about anyone else but themselves and it is a sad testament. Though I long for yesteryear and hope things will change back to the way they were, I am not holding out much hope. Our society is too far gone down the path of immorality, ignorance and hate.
Cheers!
~ Peter West
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October 15th, 2010
I have been thinking a great deal lately about why I write. A very small percentage of writers write enough books and make enough to be able to make a living at it, so it isn’t for the money. Although I care about people reading my work, I honestly don’t desire to be famous. Sometimes I use writing to vent emotions that cannot be released any other way, but that also is not the primary reason why I write. Surely it is just as entertaining to me to write as it is to read my books, but it isn’t the entertainment factor that causes me to yearn to write either.
I think I write because it nourishes the soul. It affords me self-reflection and exploration of thoughts, feelings, and emotions. At times it is like being able to have a conversation with myself without anyone thinking I am crazy. I have said many times that “writing is the one thing that when I’m doing it, I don’t feel like I should be doing something else”. That is definitely true. Writing gives me purpose and it gives me hope. In my works, I create the environment and characters and I determine every action, reaction, and outcome. While I often cannot control what happens in the real world, I have total control over every aspect in my writing. I guess that reinforces my desire for order, logic, and reason. It is nice to be able to bring order to chaos, light to darkness, and for good to triumph over evil.
To me, writing is as crucial and vital as the air I breathe, the food I eat, and the roof over my head. I guess the bottom line is that I don’t write for a living, I write to live.
Cheers!
~ Peter West
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October 14th, 2010
I have had a great deal on my mind and heart lately. Though I knew there was despair in the world, I couldn’t have fathomed just how much the world is in darkness right now. More than ever before, my eyes are being opened to see just how many hurting people there are in this country and in the world. Society has brought us to where we are all living together alone. Does anyone truly know anyone else anymore? More importantly, does anybody care? Never in my life have I witnessed, firsthand, so much apathy, hatred and a nearly complete decay of morals, values, and ethics. It’s everywhere — from driving down the street to work to shopping at the grocery store. Everyone is so angry. Violent crime is rampant. When and how did we get to this point?
I have been hearing so many stories of people (especially teens) committing suicide because they don’t fit in and are bullied or teased relentlessly while others witness it and don’t do anything to stop it or to let that person know that they are not alone. It is so sad! I vividly remember being teased and bullied when I was younger. Fortunately for me, I had good friends, wonderful grandparents, and a church family to give me support. There are so many people out there that don’t have any support. They feel abandoned and alone and are made to feel like the world would be better off without them. What’s worse, a friend had posted a public service video on Facebook urging people to reach out to those that are the targets of bullying and teasing — someone actually said that “they need to grow a set and deal with it.” I couldn’t believe that anyone could be so hateful as to post such a comment. That person clearly doesn’t understand the problem and has no business even talking about it. Unless someone has been through it and experienced those feelings for themselves, they cannot possibly understand what that person is going through. It’s not about being “wimpy” and standing up for oneself. It’s about being hurt and afraid and feeling completely isolated. When everything they hear is negative, they are destined to feel that way. It also doesn’t mean as much when an adult, such as a parent or pastor, pays a compliment. Twenty compliments from an adult doesn’t mean nearly as much as one negative comment from a peer.
So how can we make a difference? It’s a complicated answer and it won’t be easy. To really have an impact means stepping outside of our comfort zones and reaching out to those in need of our love and support.
1. Bullying needs to stop, PERIOD. Bullies need to be punished and monitored. Their parents need to also be held accountable for their actions.
2. We need to learn the warning signs and how to tell when someone is in danger and thinking about suicide or violence. It may surprise you to know that it isn’t always the ones that you THINK are in danger that are, sometimes it is the ones that no one suspected. Words are powerful and peer pressure even more so.
Warning Signs of Suicide*
- Appearing depressed or sad most of the time. (Untreated depression is the number one cause for suicide.)
- Talking or writing about death or suicide.
- Withdrawing from family and friends.
- Feeling hopeless.
- Feeling helpless.
- Feeling strong anger or rage.
- Feeling trapped — like there is no way out of a situation.
- Experiencing dramatic mood changes.
- Abusing drugs or alcohol.
- Exhibiting a change in personality.
- Acting impulsively.
- Losing interest in most activities.
- Experiencing a change in sleeping habits.
- Experiencing a change in eating habits.
- Performing poorly at work or in school.
- Giving away prized possessions.
- Writing a will.
- Feeling excessive guilt or shame.
- Acting recklessly.
Only 75% of people that have committed suicide have shown warning signs. Any warning signs should always be taken seriously, no matter how trivial. For those that don’t show signs, I have to wonder if it is just because no one took the time to get to know them well enough to recognize the signs.
* Warning signs and statistics gathered from suicide.org.
3. We need to not only set a good example through our words, but through our actions. It is important not to say one thing and do another. We live in a culture of darkness where so many people are drowning — everywhere they turn all they see is darkness. We need to be a light in the darkness of others.
Matthew 5:16 – “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.”
One of my favorite verses in the Holy Bible. Do you know which is the most important word in the entire verse? Here’s a hint… it’s one of the smallest ones. It is the word “SO”. God doesn’t want us to be a match. He wants us to be be a BEACON, like a lighthouse warning ships of the jagged rocks ahead. Whether you are religious or not doesn’t matter, the principle still applies. You need to be inspirational and motivational to others.
I make a practice of smiling at everyone I possibly can. It is a small gesture really and I’ll be honest, sometimes I have gotten dirty looks and glares for doing so. I would be willing to wager, however, that there are some people that have been having a very bad day that my smile helped. It’s not always the big gestures that make the most difference. Sometimes its the little things that matter.
4. Don’t ignore the problem, it won’t go away. I think much of the problem today is a result of the issues being ignored or swept under the rug over the years.
5. Always treat others with love and respect even if they hate you for it and spit in your eye. No matter what, it doesn’t help anyone if you contribute to the problem. The next time somebody is rude to you or cuts you off in traffic, instead of getting angry, take a moment to blow off steam and then smile and let the world know that it didn’t get to you. Hopefully if enough people see your situations and reactions, they will begin to wonder and ask about why you are so peaceful.
At any rate, I hope this post has hit a nerve with you and I hope you are invigorated to do something about the darkness in our society. Stand up and make a difference!
Cheers!
~ Peter West
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October 8th, 2010
Written in a style reminiscent of Stephen King, “The Painted Darkness” by Brian James Freeman takes the reader on a harrowing, suspense-building, and maddening journey into the mind and world of Henry. During the course of the ride, you will meet both adult Henry and childhood Henry as both stories, separate at first, become increasingly and seamlessly entwined as the book progresses.
Henry paints against the darkness. He doesn’t know why and he has no recollection of the terrible and horrific events that happened during his childhood that led to his obsession. After an argument with his wife leaves him alone in the middle of a violent winter storm, Henry must face the monsters from his childhood that have seemingly and impossibly found their way into his cellar if he is to survive.
“The Painted Darkness” is a creepy, spooky, descent into madness that will have you turning the pages well into the night just as long as you remember to read with a light on.
http://tinyurl.com/33t7jqq
Cheers!
~ Peter West
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